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my dog pees every time you go to pet him .

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It sounds like Paco might be doing what's commonly called submissive urination — and it's actually pretty common in dogs, especially when they're greeting people or being approached. It can feel frustrating, but it's almost never something Paco is doing on purpose or out of spite.

What's likely going on

When some dogs feel excited, nervous, or a little overwhelmed by attention, they instinctively release a small amount of urine. It's a body-language signal — kind of like a dog's way of saying "I'm not a threat." It tends to happen most during greetings, when someone leans over them, or when they're being touched on the head or back.

A few things that can help at home

  • Keep greetings low-key. Avoid direct eye contact, loud voices, or leaning over Paco right away. Crouch down to his level instead.
  • Let him come to you. Give him a moment to approach on his own terms rather than reaching for him first.
  • Pet under the chin rather than on top of the head — it tends to feel less intimidating to dogs.
  • Don't scold him if it happens. Reacting with frustration can make the anxiety worse and the problem harder to resolve.
  • Reward calm behavior. When he stays relaxed during a greeting, a quiet, gentle "good boy" or a small treat can go a long way over time.

Could it be something else?

It's worth knowing that not all unexpected urination is behavioral. In some dogs — especially if the age is unknown and Paco may be older — it can also be connected to bladder control issues or other health factors. Since you don't know Paco's full history, it's a good idea to at least mention this to a vet so they can rule out anything physical.


When to see your vet:

Schedule a visit if you notice any of the following:
- The urination seems to happen even when Paco isn't being greeted or touched
- He's urinating more frequently in general, or in large amounts
- You notice straining, blood in the urine, or he seems uncomfortable
- The behavior isn't improving after a few weeks of calm, consistent greetings
- You're unsure of his age or health history (a general wellness check is a great starting point)

Since Paco's age is unknown, a baseline vet visit is a really good idea anyway — it'll give you a clearer picture of where he's starting from and help rule out anything medical. 🐾

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